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writes:Okay well i thought id post my problem, Start of summer this year i went to a party with my friend, i didnt know many people there and through the night had a bit to drink and got talking to the girls,(Baring in mind i go to a girls school so there a very few boys) we began playing spin the bottle, the bottle didnt land on the girl next to me very often but she started feeling my leg and being very flirty towards me, it turned cold so we went insdie, i found a spot and sat down and the girl came on sat on me, towards the end of the night we were all making our beds up and she stayed with me, during the night things got a bit more "Friendly", however we had both had a bit to drink, the next morning we exchanged numbers and then we started dating, about 3 weeks into our "relationship" she asked me to go on a break... we never got back of this break but recently we went out on another date and have been seeing each other. I asked her if shed been with anyone else on this break and she said no, then she asked me, and i said no though i lied to her, we all went camping ( all our friends) and i got a bit intimate with with her friend, slightly more than kissed, however i found out tonight the girl im seeing already knew, so now i know shes knows i blatently lied to her face, and i really dont know what to do? do i tell? not only this but shes always really hot and cold with me? one min shes all over me and the next sh doesnt want to talk to me, she messed me about at the start of the year but i genuinely really like her and ive never really liked a girl before :\ im so confused and dont know what to do! Anyone Help Me?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 October 2009):
She isn't sure what she wants. You both need to sit down and really speak about where this relationship is going. It sounds to me like she really doesnt know what she wants of how she feels about you. She asked for a break 3 weeks into it, then came back and is now hot and cold. Talk to her. If she seems unsure, end it and find someone who is sure of themselves.
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