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I always thought only men had "wet dreams." Is this a normal thing or am I just weird?

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Question - (11 October 2009) 9 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I awoke in the middle of the night last night wet and horny. I must have cum in my sleep, although i don't remember what I was dreaming about. But I'm female and I always thought only men had "wet dreams." Is this a normal thing or am I just weird?

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (12 October 2009):

DoubleM agony auntSexual arousal and release is something like 70-80 percent mental, according to my readings and experience, which may help explain.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009):

Women who are really turned on by their man can experience wet dreams. Its happened to my gf numerous times.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (11 October 2009):

rcn agony auntIf you can have dreams that make you horny, you can have a wet dream. Lets clear up a man's wet dream, during the puberty time. It's not necessarily based on an actual dream. It's more an overproduction of sperm, where it overflows and where it comes out is the overflow valve.

It is perfectly natural to dream, get excited and cum while you're dreaming. Your body reacts to the mental stimulus, and doesn't separate if it is mentally or physically produced. It just recognized how you've become aroused and reacts accordingly.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009):

Weird? No!

Blessed? Yes!

In demand? You bet!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009):

It has happened to me lots of time. I really enjoy it.. My husband is always jeleous of me being able to orgasim in my sleep because he cant especially when the dream doesnt include him. LoL.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009):

it happens...

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A male reader, shane in dallas United States +, writes (11 October 2009):

shane in dallas agony auntIt is normal. You are not a robot. You are a woman with feelings and desires, some of them primal. The fact that you can't remember the dream means it was probably nothing but your subconscious releasing energy. Next time, if you're in bed with someone you're in a relationship with, take the opportunity to use that energy for spontaneous intimacy.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2009):

Well if a dream about being chased by monsters can wake you up in a cold sweat and a shaking panic, I really don't see why a sexy dream can't wake you up feeling the way you did.

There's no such thing as normal, and since that is not a bad feeling to wake up with, why complain??

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009):

Yes, it's normal, don't worry! Men aren't the only ones, our bodies do weird things. It must have been a good dream though, I would imagine. If you have any other questions, just message, but don't worry - you're normal. :)

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