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writes: i messed up a little last year and did stupid things , one of these things was telling my parents that i'm staying at a friend's house to study when i was staying over at my bf's place , didn't get caught . now that friend's mum is calling at the house asking about her kid cause she knows we are close , and i'm afraid one of these times my mum is going to answer and it won't take long before she figgures it out . i can;t tell my friend her mum is calling cause her mum asked me not to and things are already horrible between them . what sould i do ? i'm even considering cutting this friend off but donnu how and kind of cant cause she has emotional problems and i'm helping her through them she has noone else really and if my parents found out , well i seriously would be held hostage and beaten and well my life would be over so i need a lie or a plan or advice any thing cause i'm that dssperate .. keep in mind people .. conservative familly , conservative country Reply to this Question
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reader, OmShantih  +, writes (12 October 2009):
 Lies always get found out, it's just one of life's lessons!
I think maybe if you just told your mum thats what you did, Yes she might be mad at you for a little while, but at least you came clean! It would be 10 times worse if she had to find out from someone else and you wouldnt have to worry about them finding out.
I dont think cutting off your friend is going to be a solution, she sounds like she needs you! Can you not tell her mum that you arn't comfortable talking to her about her daughter anymore? She is putting you in a pretty awkward position with your friend, it's a bit unfair on you!
I hope someone on here can give you the exact answer you're looking for, hope all works out!
Love and Light.
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