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*arldlewis
writes:Hiya.I recently came out as gay after a long period of not really knowing and I have felt alot happier now I've come out.One of my friends intoduced me to a gay friend of hers and at first we just spoke online and had a great day together as just friends. We had spoken even more online before seeing each other yesterday.We started to talk about our relationship and we both said how one of us needed to take the first step (and kiss theother). We were both very nervous but he said that I would have to kiss him first and after a while I did.We must have kissed for almost 2 minutes and I liked it. But after that he said it didn't feel right and we both left, before he left he said "Maybe you where right when you said 'we will probably just be freiends'"- something I said to a friend even before we met.I don't know what to do- should I speak to him to try and stop him feeling bad? or should I just try and talk to the mutual friend, see if she knows anything?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 October 2009):
Maybe he's not ready. It might be worth trying to talk to him and seeing what happens.
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reader, karldlewis +, writes (11 October 2009):
karldlewis is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe has been out as gay for a while- and has had sex once- but he has never been in a serious relationship before.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 October 2009):
I wonder if this other guy is unsure of himself at the moment. You have come out, which is great. Do you know if he is really sure about who is is? You could try talking to him, just to see if he's okay. Other than that, it might be better to move on and find someone who is more comfortable with themselves.
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