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writes:I feel really alone now that i,ve finished school. I,m 17 years old , I didn't get into any of the collages i applied to and I can't get a Job , I dont really talk to my friends , I can't drive , I hate asking my parents for a loan of money so i can't go out. I feel so helpless and I really need help with this one
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reader, natnatxxx  +, writes (12 October 2009):
 i know the feeling, when i was at school i was surrounded by people wanting my company, and now it feels like im completely forgetten about. but after speaking to a few friends, who did not return to my high school for studying and went to college, i relised were all feeling abit like this. when you were in school, it was not hard to put the effort in to see people, you were pratically forced by education rules to spend time together 5 days a week. But now, its all up to you. People grow apart when school ends, and you have to keep making the effort. People grow up and change and get busy with work and further education. try and get in contact with some old friends. If you do the effort, they should return the favour, if not theres a number of hobbies you can join to make new friends who will bother with you.Keep trying for college, and try and get jobs near the now christmas season. x
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reader, Aunt Shelley +, writes (11 October 2009):
I left school not that long ago so if anyone i know how you feel, Its hard when you leave school, out off all your friends there would be about 2 maybe less than that you stay close to for the reminder off your live! About your college and your job just keep trying your get to where you want to be when you want, and im sure your parents understand because they are proud of you and know you have tried to get some where, Keep your head up high and just remember your parents love you weather there giving you money or not, so dont feel helpless cause your parents try to keep you young as possible:) good luck i hope this has helped
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 October 2009):
I recently lost my job, so I know how you feel. You've got to be very strong and just keep going. There's nothing more you can do. Keep applying for jobs, make sure you talk to you parents about how you feel, and try to talk to your friends. You will get where you want to be, but it'll take time. Just stay focused and keep as busy as you can. You could even do voluntary work to keep busy. Whatever yoou do, dont just sit around at home, because you'll become depressed. Kep going and lots and lots of luck :)
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