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writes:i wake up every morning and i see different guys at my school. and i think to myself, "Why do guys find me unattractive?" i want to understand why i have no one noticing me and complimenting me, like a guy should. my question is: Why don't guys find me attractive? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 October 2009):
I'm sure it's not that you're unattractive. It's more likely that you're underconfident with yourself, and this is showing. Guys might not think you're interested at all in them because you seem unapproachable. Be more open and confident in yourself, and try talking to some of the guys. See what happens.
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reader, Blod +, writes (11 October 2009):
 Even without seeing a photo of you, I'm pretty certain that you're at least decent looking. Has anyone ever actually told you that they find you unattractive? Or are you presuming this because noone's ever complimented you?Trust me, unless you're one of those confident, flirty girls at your school then I wouldn't expect you to get compliments. It's not about the way you look. It's about who you are. The girls that get compliments thrown at them are the ones that demand them. You don't sound like one of those girls.I'm not telling you to change who you are. Be yorself. If someone likes you, you'll more than likely get complimented by them quite frequently. Not all boys have enough confidence to compliment girls anyway. They can be just as shy as girls. So even if they do think you're gorgeous they're unlikely to say it in case the other guys think they're soppy for telling you that they like your hair or whatever. And this especially applies for the less confident guys. No compliments doesn't mean that you're unattractive. Make an effort with your appearance and make sure you always look presentable. To be honest it's other girls who you need to be looking for compliments from. If they tell you that you look nice then you probably do, unless they're one of those confident, flirty girls...Hope it answered your question.Good Luck. X
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reader, ellie:) +, writes (11 October 2009):
 Are you shy???? Because if you are not there are plenty of things you could do to make them notice you! 1.You could flirt with the guy you like2.wear things you know would get a guys attention3.give them a clue4.play it hard to get by those 4 steps it could make a guy not be able to stop thinking about you GOOD LUCK :)[Edited by moderator to remove text speak]
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