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I'm only 13, but I am pretty sure I am ready for sex!

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Question - (11 October 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age , *hannnnoooon-x writes:

im only 13 and been with my boyf. for two years he wants to have sex and im pretty sure im ready (even though im still a virgin ) he is one year younger than me but im worrying about bleeding or what to do. im really excited about doing it and im totally confident but i dont want to get pregnant and what do i do if the condom splits my mum would kill me please help i really want to give it a go.....?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009):

i think you should just have sex if you really what to but if you dont then just do finger your self our whank

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009):

Wait a few years- its not even legal! Plus you'd become another statistic of teenage pregnancy. Honestly, just hold your horses for a while- you'll be thankful that you did when you are older.

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A female reader, Meep! United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2009):

Honey, wait. Neither you nor your boyfriend will be ready at this age. Even if you think you are.

I don't want to sound like just another preachy adult who doesn't understand what's going through your mind - I DO understand. I lost my virginity at 14 (slightly different situation as he was 24) and was convinced I was ready but really, mentally, I wasn't. I do wish I had waited longer.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2009):

Neither of you are ready at all. It is illegal for you to have sex under the age of 16. And there is always a chance that you will get pregnant. You're not ready yet, so wait.

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