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*sabella1987
writes:I don't know what to do.I am scare of my parents.I just broke up with my bf and stay with my parents now. They don't like my bf but now I want to back with my bf. I don't know how to tell my parents.They will upset. I am scare.Specially my dad.Please help me how to tell my parents for I want to back with my bf.I love him.I miss him so much.Please give me advice.Thank you very much. PS they hate him because he is different culture. I am Asian and he is Spanish. He don' t know how to respect like Asian way. So. they don't like him
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): Why don't you try to speak to your ex bf, tell him to learn Asian culture, maybe by respecting the old, and so on, because i believe the young are easy to adapt and change, but the old are very hard. If you think your ex bf love you, he will do anything for you right, including a change
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009): if you are over the age of 18, then its your call, sorry but not your parents,
your parents can not decide for you who you should love, that a feeling no one can control it for you, and that is why you need to take them out of the picture.
take in mind, love is not something you can find everyday, and when it happens, try to hold on to it is much as you can, don't let it go, after all its your life, and its you who might suffer in years to come by not finding your love, so if you relay in love with this guy, go for it! take out everybody or anybody from the picture, and especially if they are happily married and in love, its easy for them to tell you "let it go"......
so the question about your parents is not how to convince them, but just let them know, dear father and mother its a fact but im in love, and if they don't like it, just don't talk to them about it, but the main think is, don't lose you love, because your parents don't like him.
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