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writes: I am 21 yrs old, livin with my parents. i just hate my life, i can't go out with my friends everyday, when i am with my friends, so my parents would call me 100 times and send sms 50 times..when i come home late, they will yell at me, my father's going to be soo rude to me. When i dun get it my way so i lie to them but my bad luck, everytime they catch me and then i am busted! I hate to admit it but due to all of the problemsI(espesially parents) in my life i've become a cutter! My parents r sooo strict that i can't do anything without their permission! I work, and when i am finished with my work, they jus start callin me until am back at home! What should i do? Noooo, i can't move out coz i am Pakistani girl and can't do it..i can't hurt them..Plzz i seriously need some advice or else i would die in here!! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, HereAreMyTwoCents +, writes (11 October 2009):
Move out. Period. Your parents are not allowed to treat you like this. You are an adult. Worrying about hurting your parents is the least of your problems. Obviously, your parents are not worrying about how they are hurting you. They just want you to do what THEY want. Period. So you need to take your life into your own hands, because you are an adult. Period.
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reader, YourDestiny11 +, writes (11 October 2009):
Ok for one you are 21 years old and after 18 you dont need their permission for anything! Move out, get a room mate and an apartment! It will make your relationship better with your parents and your social life! Good luck!
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