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How can I tell if he loves me?

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Question - (11 October 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2009)
A female Malaysia age 30-35, *nabella writes:

i am in love with this guy, known him for 2years since August 2007, met in church. i watched him secretly and i notice that he also tries to approach me and my sister said he always look at me secretly.the problem is when he approaches me, he did not say anything?! just say hi and shake my hand then just left after staring at me 3-4 seconds. we do had few short conversations before. and now he is approaching my family but not me....never talk to me. i feel disappointing. and he sent me message once (on July 2009) but do not give his name. i just know that is his number from a friend of mine. what my friend told me is that he is a shy boy..thought i don't think so. so the question is, does he have special interest in me like i do in him? how can i know he loves me? what are the signs that guys show when they like or love a girl? In short, does he possibly in love with me?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2009):

:) Good luck. Be brave.

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A female reader, anabella Malaysia +, writes (11 October 2009):

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anabella agony auntthanks. i guess im gonna try my best to speak with him in our next meet. well we dont meet frequently...so as u say, try to move on. but love isnt that simple...........anyway i will tell u the next progress btwen us (only if theres something happen between us lol ) to inform u.. hopefully he is the one who approaches me first... i will remember "smile at him more" hehe c u later pal.

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A female reader, anabella Malaysia +, writes (11 October 2009):

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anabella agony auntwell my dear friend, i think im gonna try my best when ive the opportunity to see him again. coz we dont meet frequently. but as u say, i also must try to move on....well love isnt that easy....i will tell u the ongoing story between us afterward. .. ... ^_^ (only if something new happen btwen us lol)

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2009):

Guys who like girls tend to act this way if they are unsure about how the girl feels. Smile at him more. And instead of telling him how you feel, try just talking about him and finding out what he is like. If he continues to ignore you after that, then try to move on.

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A female reader, anabella Malaysia +, writes (11 October 2009):

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anabella agony auntdear caring guy.well thats the problem...i cant even dare to approach him. i always the one who wait for him to come to me and since these 2-3 months, he act like ignoring me...i was hurt when recently he shake my hand but not even look into my eyes. this make me started to think negative and maybe i should just forget about him......but, here he is...always on my mind. and secondly, though i may approach him, there we go...sit and quite. damn...i always regret after being quite beside him but i cant control myself....the quiteness is suddenly pop up.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2009):

It sounds like he's interested, but doesn't know how you feel. Why don't you try talking to him and getting to know him more?

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