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*zredbone
writes:I recently found out that the guy that has been chasing me romantically for almost a year is in a relationship. He just told me yesterday that he has a girl friend now, and the person that he claims is his girl is someone that he has been telling me is a friend to him and also his cousin's ex girlfriend. I'm wondering if he has been lying the whole entire time. I have been ignoring his romantic gestures for ever, but it seems like as soon as he told me he had a girl friend, i can't stop thinking about him, it's kinda crazy. He has told me day after day how he loves me and wants to marry me and have children with me some day. And i have always been telling him that we are just friends, but he never accepted my friend title, I'm so confused, should I tell him that i want him so badly now or should I just leave it alone because i'm the one that wouldn't give him a chance at first????????
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2009): I hope this is an intelligent trick by him to make you open up, though the chances are small. If that is the case, we can all be happy. But If he has really moved on, it is not fair to pull him from his girl.. i mean not fair to that girl. Ask him about it. Good luck!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 October 2009):
I'm afraid you have to leave this. He chased and chased and you weren't interested. So he moved on which was bound to happen, and I understand why. Now you need to move on and find another guy who you really love. Lots of luck.
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