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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my best friend and partner in crime has started dating a guy and now has no time to see me any more. I am lonely and sad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): i think this happens a lot. ur friend is cought up in her relationship and u feel a lone. i think u should just talk to her and let her know how u feel. set up a day where its girls night out or something like that so u can spend time with her and she can have the other days for her b/f. just let her know. i'm sure she'll understand if u guys are partners in crime...hehe
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): The best thing you can do is sit down with your friend and talk to her. Arrange a time to talk to your friend in person and let her know what you are feeling. Don't push blame her way otherwise she might get defensive and accuse you of being jealous. Simply explain the things that have bothered you in the past and what you would like from her: more consideration, more time etc. See what she says.
These things don't always go well. I lost my best friend in high school (who was like a sister to me) to a guy. She made the choice of him over me because he gave her a pride within herself that she never experienced before. She felt desired and important to him, and these feelings can never compete with a friendship. Sad but true.
I hope you have good luck. Just be honest, that is all you can do.
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