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writes:My boyfriend and I have been official for 4 months now and seeing eachother for about 6 and we're only on second base. The only first move other than kissing he's ever made was to feel me up the first time; since then, I've been the one having to put his hands there. He won't finger me or anything and when my friends told me it was because he was waiting for me to do something, I did. I've put his hand down there and all he does is rub for a little while and then stop. What is wrong??
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (7 May 2009):
 I had a boyfriend and we never did anything for 6months either. Just let him take his time, he may not have a high libido. Talk to him and see what the problem is.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): What is it you want him to do? Do you just put his hand there without saying anything and leave it at that or actually tell him what you'd like him to do to you? If the former, perhaps a little more communication is needed - he won't be a mind reader.
What do you do for him? Do you play with his bits at all? If not, perhaps you should and give him some sort of lead by doing so. If this is the case he could be thinking it's all a bit one-sided and rather frustrating.
The devil is in the detail!
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reader, malum424 +, writes (7 May 2009):
 there could be alot of thing going on his mind you could be his first, he's worried that his man bits are to small,he my not know what to do..down to*cough cough* stage fright.If you really what to seal the deal with him try gently leading him to it..what I'm telling you is take control
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, Gina. I was worried that he was waiting for me to make the first move, I've never been with a guy like this and it confuses the heck out of me, especially since he's done things with other girls before. I honestly feel kind of like a slut, considering I normally am extremely respectful of myself and others. Is it too late for me to fix this? He must think Im horrible.
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