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New crush... what should I think?

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Question - (7 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 May 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So im way into this guy who i have hung out with a couple times. Hes incredible! He makes me laugh, and hes extremely intelligent. He is my ideal package. So this last saturday, he took me out and then after the date we made out like rockstars all night. My only concern is...is he using me?

I usually dont like to kiss a guy on a first date, but..i had to get my chance with him!

So he knows im digging him, and my friends always kid about us getting married. Well after we madeout, my friend told his friend that i thought he may have used me. since saturday he has texted me everyday talking about getting together and hanging out more...although i wonder if he's just doing this cuz he pittys me for thinking that he used me?

Also....he got into a way good school across counrty and he'll leave in 3 months to go there. So is it worth it to get into anything now if i may be more heart broken when he has to leave?

Also...he is kinda short...so has any girls dated shorter guys, and gotten over the fact he is short?

I mean his personality is way raad. So will i see past his height some day?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009):

Well, your attracted to him enough to "makeout like rock stars' so it sounds like you are already over the height. It should not matter what other people think.

Also, yes, because he is moving away and will be around many new people...it probably will not become a serious relationship in the short run, but see how it goes. Just be casual and see where things take you.

Make a point of being friends first and maybe it will turn into something else later on.

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