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writes:my ex boyfriend and I are trying to get work things out but some of his actions confuse me. we have a 10 month old baby together and he moved out into a house by himself. i have been left to take care of the baby and my other two children.. he comes over at his convenience, stays over the nights he chooses to. and stays at his house when he has to go into work early. its hard for me to understand this because 1 he should want to be with me and his daughter all the time and 2 why does he get the opportunity to pick and choose in his involvement. I really cant see any further commitment from him,,what do I do, how long would any normal woman put up with this behavior? he swears he loves me and things will change do I believe him???
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (7 May 2009):
 Tell him that there needs to be changes because you can't be expected to put up with this any longer. Write down exactly what you want to change! Then when having a conversation with him tell him what you have noticed him doing, how it makes you feel and how you both can change this. By using this conversation structure its easier to cover all points and clear the air quicker! X
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