I don't know what to to do anymore. He keeps treating me badly.

A female age 36-40, *weetie1 writes:

Me and my boyfriend been living together for a while. But things jus seem to go different lately. He would leave me home and go out and see other woman and come home in the morning. We've been together for 2years plus. He was with ex for six years and then it broke off. He started to drink alcohol and smoke heavy and said that this was the only to get rid of the bad memories and that he jus cannot stop fuck around right now.Now i feel like if am with people man bcus he jus keeping sleeping around the place with other girls.Before i use to believe him but now i cant.He also goes to school and tels me he studies late.Now am finding out that sees people before he goes to school and when i asked on several ocassions to see him before he says to me o see u later when i get home. Everytime he does somethng wrong he comes back home asking me if i still love him, give him a kiss and tries to convince me that am his number 1 Sometimes he never answer his phone when i call but when were together he answers it and then sometimes he dont. Lately am really confused and so too are my emotions. Everytime i leave to go he always says dont go and that he will never leave me. Most times when i go away he tells me to cme back and when i do he treats me good for a while and then back to chaos. Everytime i try to talk with him about what going he keeps how am turning him off and reminding him of what he is doing and that i hurt his feeelings and is his life. What hurts most is that i love him so taking this shit and evrybody is so vex with him because they are dat am so nice to him and watch wat he is doing and look at the kind of girls he goes behing, girls with bad reputation. I clean his room , watch his clothes, cook and still he is treating that way. The next thing is that he pick up these for a while and then blank them off completely and then he coming back to me like if everything supposed to be ok. to me it look sometimes he is more concerned about them than me and when i tel him that he says its not true it only looks that way.

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