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writes:hey well um I wanna ask for some relationship adivce help idk if this site is good for that but yeahh anyways... this being my 1st real relationship... I have been going out with this girl for about a month starting today.. but it has been a hell of a trip... I met this girl and she is 16 and im 19.. She seemed so cute and everything she did too. But then as I started going out with her she told me she had a miscarriage only about a month ago after I started going out with her.. it hurt me soooo bad knowing that she probably loved a another guy and wanted to have a baby with him at a early age.. I didn't really ask her with who or how many BFs or sex she had im to scared to ask her... (maybe later ill ask her, with time?)but she has given me hints that she has had a lot of Boy friends and sex...The thing that gets me the most is that she told me she is having sex with her cuz.. she says hes adopted and he always goes to her house EVERY night... she even told me once he sleeps naked.. another day she told me she sleeps naked.. you can only guess what I was thinking when she told me that... thoughts went crazy in my head... ever since she told me that like 4 days ago I dont know if I can trust her.. The reason she told me that is because I was going to see her the next day and wanted to talk about the "hicky" she had on her.. I cant even get sleep anymore since she told me that its ALWAYS on my mind... like wtf... its just wrong imo... I mean would u fuck your moms new husband cause hes not blood?? kinda the same thing if their family..ok she told me she is trying to change her ways but I don't know if I can believe her because she got a hicky from her cuz while we were going out.. and probably still having sex.. she even told me she is considered the "school slut" at her school.. I don't know if she is just using me to hurt my feelings because she probably likes to hurt guys feelings just for fun.. you never know.. girls can be pretty crazy in the mind.. or maybe she is just using me to get in my pants knowing its a challenge for her.. because she knows I am a virgin and can take advantage at me.. I don't want to be used, but right now that's how I feel, I feel like Im being used for her game fun... someone help me.. I dont know why but I still love her.. but its just so hard knowing all of this stuff she has been through... someone plz help.. :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): yyeaahh... i'm not so sure this is a real question. Surely no one is THIS clueless.
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