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anonymous
writes:Hey um... hoping someone out there can help me with this... this has happened 3 times already and I'm starting to wonder if it's going to be like this for 'ever'... here's an example scenario: i like this guy, or at least believe i do; i like the way he smiles, how he laughs, how i can feel his body heat from standing close etc etc. corny i know but that's how i feel when i like a guy... everything about them makes me smile but at the same time I'm able to see why someone might not like them... if that makes sense. so i guess my rose-tinted glasses are only lightly tinted?Anyway. i really like the guy. then i find he likes me back and i'm so happy i smile so randomly, people on the bus look at me weirdlyThe next time i see them, it might be alright...But after that stuff starts happening. when i see them i automatically notice all their flaws, physically and mentally. I start to pity them. I don't want to be around them, like i have many many other things i could be doing with my time. they basically disgust me. not to mention the nauseating feeling that makes me want to puke whenever i get more then 30cm near them.What i need to know is... has this happened to anyone else? I'm 15 and like i said, it's happened 3 times already.... and if it has, have you grown out of it or have any idea what causes it? i'd really like some help if anyone is able and willing :| Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): I don't think it's that you're picky... Maybe just nervous? But i don't know much about it so eh. Seems pretty annoying.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (7 May 2009):
 I had a friend who was like this. We decided that she was just too picky about guys and she needed to chill out. When you begin to notice flaws ignore them, everyone has flaws, everyone is different and we just have to accept them as they are! Nobody is perfect so unless you find a way of stopping these thoughts you aren't going to find a boyfriend anytime soon. X
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (7 May 2009):
I had a friend who was like this. We decided that she was just too picky about guys and she needed to chill out. When you begin to notice flaws ignore them, everyone has flaws, everyone is different and we just have to accept them as they are! Nobody is perfect so unless you find a way of stopping these thoughts you aren't going to find a boyfriend anytime soon. X
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