Should I break things off before he does go elsewhere?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My boyfirend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. He has a really strong sex drive. And my body sometimes can't keep up with it. So when I deny him sex sometimes he'll make me feel guilty about it. Not in a really harsh way. But it still feels like guilt. Then I get to feeling like I'm not doing my part. I do have to say that things were super hot and heavy when we fist met. And I do admit that things have died down a little bit but not much at all. We have sex at least 3 times a week. If I'm not on my cycle. He has a history of cheating. And I'm a little scared that he might go looking for it elsewhere. Am I overeacting? Or is he wrong? Should I break things off before he does go elsewhere?

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