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writes:Me again.My girlfriend came back to me, you could say. We were going pretty good until this other girl came along.My girlfriend told me she only liked one girl, and that was me. This other girl [Let's call her "Girl B"] claims to be madly in love with my girlfriend, and wants her happy. I told my girlfriend it bugged me, and she told me not to worry and that she didn't think of her like that. A couple days ago, my girlfriend told me that Girl B kissed her. Not only kissed her but left a hickey on the back of her neck, stuck her fingers in my girlfriend's mouth and bit her ear. The thing about the fingers got my head spinning because Girl B had a "phobia" of saliva, which now turned into a fetish.My girlfriend told me she felt horrible, and that she knew she was partly responsible for not stopping her. I forgave her, cause she told me it wouldn't happen again. That same day, Girl B forced herself on my girlfriend, after my girlfriend told her no. She now told me they talked about it, and it won't happen again.Is it wrong of me to still worry? My girlfriend is telling me not to worry, and to worry about myself. My health, body, life, etc. But I don't want to feel cheated again. Should I be worried? Reply to this Question
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reader, roku +, writes (7 May 2009):
roku is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you to both of you who have replied to my question.It has helped me a lot, and I willl definitely take your advice, anonymous. Thank you again. it means a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): You should definitely worry! There might be a chance that she could have feelings for both of you if she didn't stop Girl B, even though she most likely has stronger feelings for you. You should sit her down and really talk to her about sending Girl B out of the picture for good! And if that doesn't work, find Girl B and threaten her if she doesn't back off! Good luck!
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reader, niki20 +, writes (7 May 2009):
 if you are worried its ok, i would be to if i was in your situation. the fact that she just let girl b do that stuff to her and never stopped her would concern me. personally i think that you have a pretty stable reason to worry,
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