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writes:Dear Cupid Org,I am head over heels in love with a guy for a few months now. He works in a drug store in the town I live and I fell in love with him the first time I saw him. I couldn't take my eyes off him which he seemed to had noticed and he kept staring at me. Ever since I laid my eyes on him I can't sleep or eat or concentrate. Not a minute, hour, or day passes without thinking of him. Whenever we meet he keeps looking at me and I keep,looking at him. Everyone at the store seem to understand what is going on but he doesn't seem to bother. His eyes, those eyes when he looks at me it feels I am in Paradise. I always find excuses (that is I often go to the drug store to buy things) just to see him. When he sees me he looks at me in the eyes. His eyes tell me that he feels the same way I do but I can't be sure of that. I am trying to find the strength to tell him how deadly in love I am with him, after all it is all about pure love all but I am not sure whether he's straight or gay.How do you tell a stranger that you are in love with him? especially if he's a guy and you're a guy too? Anyway, I can't take this any more, I feel I am losing my mind. The saddest part is that I'm all alone in that after all how can I tell my friends or my brother that I'm in love with another man? I live in a small city and those things are forbidden. I don't know what to do. I am falling apart. Please help me!
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reader, Skyleon  +, writes (11 October 2010):
Same here. I was this dude in school and i fell in love with him, i can't stop thinking about him,the worst thing is that i'm pretty sure he is straight D:. The way he acts, walks, ect. Makes me think he is straight. I need help too :( we are going through the same thing here :'(.... It's horrible to be in love with someone who doesn't even notice you or something(In my case xD) Good Luck!
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (8 May 2009):
 the fact you cant tell people is probably why this attraction feels so strong. talking always lets off steam. maybe if it was less fantasy and you knew more about this (clearly) pyhsically attractive man he would seem less mysterious and you could regain your mind.
i understand what you mean though as there is someone at my work who has a strange looking face and i feel like i'm gonna die of over arousal when i look at them. personally i dont think it is that mutual in my case, i just really like this persons look. and looks aren't love no matter how pretty it makes you feel to look into their eyes...
talk to him about something non- sex related that is a common interest. men like football...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): If the guy told you that he felt the same way where is the confusion?Also i would strongly suggest not going so deep sooooo quick it would scare anyone off. instead why not just ask to go for a drink and see where it takes you?You also need to think that if you do get with this guy you cant keep it a secret and so are you ready to "come out" to your family.good luck :)
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