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writes:Hey, i really dont know what to do, so here it goes. my best friend got with the guy she knew i liked, and broke up with him a week later, but thats not the problem, my problem is that i couldn't and cant get over this guy, its driving me nuts. this monday in lunch i noticed him very different, idk sad\ depressed, hes usually always happy and joking. I noticed that he would glimpse at me then sadly put his head down. it makes me sad, too see him this way, and i want to know if i should ask him whats wrong but im kinda afraid to talk to him, cause of what my best friend will think. please any suggestions? XX
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reader, hailey_heartbroken +, writes (7 May 2009):
you should tell your friend that he is a friend too and you are going to ask him what is wrong, if she is a real friend she wouldnt put you in the middle anyway, she will be mad and she will moan but thats what girls do (ive done it)she will also get over it because it is pretty sad to be mad at a friend.
As for him,,,i understand you like him still i have been there but if he lets you in the most you can do is be a friend fight your feelings for him because he needs you...show your a good friend not all make like it but you will gain more respect in the long run,,,thats what i did and now i have friends i can count on one hand but i know their trust worthy...hope this helps xx
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reader, siiLviia  +, writes (7 May 2009):
Just ask him. Seriously, it's killing you! Just go talk to him.Your best friend didn't stop to think what you would think or feel if she went out with him, why should you?Youre not doing anything bad.
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