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age
41-50,
*lphamale
writes:Hi I am 28 years old and I have always preferred older women. the first time I had sex I was 15 and she was 23 and from that point on older women have been my choice. Sure I have been with several younger than me girls but I feel they're immature, and don't know what they really want. They seem to enjoy the "drama" rather than letting things flow. I need a woman who knows where the line between love and sex is.I'm very passionate and virile I feel a woman reaches their sexual prime at 35. I recently had a one night stand with a woman she was 42 and it's probably the best, more intense sex I've ever had. I don't like them too old though , they need to be younger than my mother (she's 46) so between 30 and 46 it's just perfect for me. is this normal?
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reader, daletom +, writes (8 May 2009):
"alphamale", I agree with you up to a point. Intelligence and maturity are MAJOR factors in deciding who I find attractive. But, especially as I've grown older, I have found that maturity isn't as tightly correlated with age as I once thought, and intelligence can happen at almost any age. (I have also had the experience of being attracted to a woman almost 20 years older than me, though I never allowed it to become a crush much less an affair. She wasn't especially sexy, or attractive in a glamorous way, but she DID hold advanced degrees in mathematics . . .)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): Yes fine, everyone likes different things, and it's not surprising as your first was substantially older than you. Nothing odd about that.
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reader, Trias21  +, writes (7 May 2009):
I guess that depends on memories and experiences and also whether both parties are looking to be fulfilled for their needs.
I personally feel more attracted to much younger women both physically and emotionally.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): i like younger guys some times.especially a certain type guy
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): I can't speak for the majority, but for me I totally agree - older women are certainly far better to be with in both a romantic and sexual sense because they have far more maturity.
It appears to be a sad fact, though, that most women prefer older guys!
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