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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My gf is mid 30 and I am mid 20.She is married and divorced with a daughter. She been through a bad relationship before.Added with the age gap, sometimes, I don't know if the things I expect her to do is correct. I need some advices because I am really troubled.She live with her mom and daughter. Very far from my house.Doesn't matter how busy we are, we will at least left offline messages to each other. Even if it is late night, we will logon and drop some messages.Today is her day off, I called her several times but she never return the call. When it is getting late, I started to get worry because she doesn't left me any messages.Despite the time, I keep calling her. Finally, it is answered. It is very noisy over there. I keep hello but no respond.I hang up and call again. After few times, it is answered, this time it is quiet, I heard some girls talking then it is hang up. So, I no longer call because at least I know she is fine.I waited until now, I don't see her messages. She won't call me, it has been months.This is the first time it happens this way. Similar situations happened twice but at late night, she came online and left me a good night message but she never tell where she been to.For the past event, I asked her and she get mad, something like she doesn't need to tell me where she is. She also said my stupid phone call won't help if she is in trouble.Am I wrong or immature because I worried when I don't see anything from her the whole day?And is it wrong to keep calling when I know she will never call back? Or I am just like she said stupid because it won't help her and it is quite clear she isn't into me anymore.Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): Chalk it up to a learning experience!
Move on!
You do not deserve to be treated like a toy, she takes off the shelf at her convenience!
No matter what she has been through in her life, it doesn't give her the right to hurt others!
Continue your search for true love!
Britt
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (7 May 2009):
 You need to think about whether you want to continue relationship. It doesn't seem like much of a relationship if you say you haven't talked for months. I dont think she really cares too much about you.
Get out into the real world and date someone near you. You dont need this hassle
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