I pushed her away, but now that she is moving on it hurts me

A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i dumped my girlfriend because i didnt love her ..i avoided her even when she tried to became a friend and just removed her from my life completely though it was really heart wrenching and hard to achieve..she was genuinely very caring and a real sweet heart .she supported me a lot in my ups and downs and even calmed and cheered me whenever i had a quarrel at home ...i told to her that we can only become friends when everything cools down and we are completely over each other till then no contacts no calls etc ...now i feel my life lonely and purposeless...something is missing and it feels so empty and i live or smile just for the heck of it and in the hope and endless waiting to get over her so that i can call her ...in the process of pushing her away, i have hurt her a lot and had to become a bit mean and rude which would have really surprised her thinking i was her own ...confusing isnt it ? i dont have anyone to caress me and support me now ..its so painful missing such a sweetheart in my life! but everytime i remind myself of the reason we broke and try to console myself ..day by day i fear that the attachment is becoming looser and she is going further away from me ..although this is what i always wanted and made it happen! now when she is moving on finally, why does it pain inside ?

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