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writes: I need some help. I really like this guy at my school. I’ve liked him for about 4 months now. He has a girlfriend at a different school. We have flirted in the past, and played around joking and stuff. Then randomly one week he just stopped hanging out with our group. He’s done it before, so I was disappointed but not really worried. Then one day we didn’t talk at all, because we didn’t see each other all day, so I tried talking to him on MySpace IM (instant messaging). I said hey, he didn’t reply, so I thought he was just away from his computer. The next day I say hey again, he doesn’t reply. A few days later after not talking or seeing each other or anything, I read his status message and its something like "nobody wants to talk to me, nobody wants to know me". So I message him saying hey. No reply. Then I say "are you okay? Your status says nobody wants to talk to talk to you but I have been trying to talk to you all week." then he "goes offline" like 30 seconds later, meaning he blocked me. I have no idea why he is acting this way. I cannot think of ANYTHING at all that I did to upset him. I have just been friendly and nice the whole time. This is making me sort of depressed. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah, we are talking again. i think hes just going through a rough time iwth somebody hes close to, something private. but at school he gets sorta mood-swingy so im not taking anything personally. thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): I'm having almost the same problem about a guy not talking to me. I think we make it a bigger problem than it is. I would just wait for a little while and see what happens.
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reader, goaliceclueless  +, writes (7 May 2009):
i completely agree with the others. there is a lot of attention seeking going on here, guys are stranger than we think, do what hailey_heartbroken says and don't show him too much attention because its what he wants. anyway let me know how it goes :) xx
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reader, hailey_heartbroken +, writes (7 May 2009):
sorry to hear he dint break up with his gf...i still wouldnt chase him though xx
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (7 May 2009):
 hmm very odd.
perhaps something is bothering him?
i would say try and talk to him but you aren't getting anywhere there maybe his girlfriends upset him or something and he doesn't want to talk bout it?
i would leave it for a while he will come around.
but do be careful with him.
and just because he went offline after you tried to talk to him doesn't mean he blocked you hun he could have just gone offline.
hope this helps.
let me know how it goes.
x x X x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah thanks. but no he hasnt broken up with his gf. xoox
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reader, hailey_heartbroken +, writes (7 May 2009):
maybe his gf broke up with him?
sounds to me lke there is a bit of attention seeking going on and although he is feeling sorry for himself he likes the fact that you are at his call,,play him back at his own game...down contact him,if u see him dont acknowledge him (but dont do it childishly) when he eventually talks to you cos he will eventually just dont even ask him about it,just be like hey you ok, he will want you to ask and by not askin shows you have got your own life and moved on...i was in exactly the same sito and i snubbed him he hated it,,,result!!! turned out in the end i didnt like that lad so much lol..let me no how u get on x
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