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female
age
36-40,
*orizon_Blue
writes:Recently things have got so weird..we went on a brake as he is having a breakdown right now with work and having trouble sleeping it caused him to be very off with me.. when then a couple of days after the break i couldn't take all this stress and just split with him.. he said he will always have something in my heart for me and loves me so much.. but now 3 days on i have realised i dont want him out of my life. He means the world to me and i would do anything for him.. even give him space until he realises what he wants in life.. with this breakdown.. so i sent him a 7 page text msg last night.. telling him how much i still want him and what i feel about him.. he emailed me back saying i was a diamond.. and we would sort this out and not to worry.. is he saying this just to keep me happy? does he really want me? :-( its so hard thinking about someone you love so much to not love u back..he says he does love me he just needs some space to figure out what he wants and doesnt wanna hurt me by being all wierd when hes in this place right now.. I know i need to be strong but right now i know when im in love.. and i really want things to work out.. i sent him another text saying take me back and he replied the same dont worry.. we will sort this??i didnt want to ask what u mean? etc etc.. didnt want to annoy him,but can someone else shead some light on this for me? am i doing right not to let him go? i have been with him over a year.. any response will be appreciatted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): Well if he is going through a tough time at the moment, give him some space to work things out in his head.
You've already told him how you feel, and that you do want to be with him, and it seems that he has acknowledged that. Trust in him that when he feels better, he'll still love you.
He sounds like he really does want this to work out, but doesnt want to want you to get mixed up in his issues with work. Understand that people do need time to work things out for themselves, but let him know that you are here to help him with whatever he is going through at the moment.
Goodluck :)
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