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writes:I can't stress the fact that I have not dated a High School girl since I finished High School 3 years ago, okay, not even one.I'm 20 now and dating a soon to be 18 year old girl in Grade 12, and I was iffy on it at fist too but I have several friends who have done this and I have heard of relationships and also because generally the cutoff is 22, so I'll be 21 in August and I don't think I'll be dating any more High School girls lol.I'd just like some input on this from women and men.I have already prepared myself that when she goes to University, that's probably gonna be it, until then though I'm a bit challenged as I'm done my school year and she's got 2 months left.I've only met two of her friends, I've been told that's normal as I should accept the role of " that older guy " lol.
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reader, Colormevibrant  +, writes (8 May 2009):
The age difference between you and your girlfriend is miniscule. The only prob is that as a "soon-to-be" 18yr old, she's STILL underage (at least in most jurisdictions). Once she's 18 - no problem.
One other thing, if you're "soon-to-be" 21, you're going to be able to drink soon and you'll have entry into a lot of venues that won't admit your girlfriend. It may not seem like a big deal now, but it could be a real hassle to you and your of-age friends, shortly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): I think it's fine. It's legal, and as long as you're not using her there's nothing wrong with it. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): There's nothing really wrong with dating an almost 18 year old girl if you're 20. I'm 24, going 25 this year, and my girlfriend is only 19.
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