A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello - my boyfriend is very protective of his Blackberry and email. When I checked his auto fill in, a girl he's flirted with at happy hours and sales rallies is the most used name for outgoing mail. She's beautiful and she really enjoys him too. He never lets me be at his office. Even when I'm right next to his office at lunch and he knows it, he denies my suggestion to lunch together. One exception: he very carefully posed a day together next to his office and said I could see where he works and he stalled and was able to show me where he works at 7:00pm on a Saturday night. Of course no one was there. He wouldn't tour me, and just quickly said this is where I work. Contrary to his claim he has a picture of me on his desk, he actually did not. Instead, he has a picture of an NFL player.Another girl, he's had a crush on for 15 months, works in his office and I've seen his schedule which can contain up to three lunches in a week with her.Last fall I told him I will join him at his company picnic and he sent me three vicious text messages saying I'm spying on him and controlling him.He constantly accuses me of flirting and sleeping around, when I simply don't do that. That action indicates he is actually the one doing it, since he spontaneously attacks me with these random accusations.He is home every night. He goes on a once a year trip with his cocaine and drinking friends for 3 days and 2 nights to "blow off steam", and about twice a month goes "out with the boys" until 9-10pm.Periodically he "works late" and "leaves the office" at 8 pm.I don't think he has a sex buddy, but I certainly think he is an insatiable flirt and macks on women in and around his workplace.What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): Thanks everyone. I really appreciate it. I know he is an unkind and flirtatious man. I am working on leaving him
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): I think he is a big flirt! But the best way to find out the truth is to consult him face to face. He's your boyfriend after all you should easily be able to talk to him... even if it's an uncomfortable matter. because if hes telling the truth you'll know it straight away by the way he reacts, and if he doesnt flirt etc. you can tell him why you thought so, if hes a proper boyfriend he'll accept your mistake,
cheers sooty xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): Leave him! You shouldn't go out with someone for whom you offeredto go to their office picnic and then he accused you ofsuffocating him! I think that there is definitely somehting going on in the office! Don't stay with him , leave.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): He sounds like a waste of all this worry. Cocaine and drinking buddies? What the hell? Can you ever see yourself trusting him? If not, dump him because that is a fundamental building block of a healthy relationship.
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