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I want to get with my cousin

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Question - (1 March 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 28 March 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I want to get with my cousin. We used to play and kiss when we were little but now we are older I'm 18 years old and she is 19 and I want to see if I can have something more with her, I don't care if she is my cousin, I realy like her. I hit her ass sometimes and she doesn't seem to care but I don't know what she is going to say if I tell that I want her. I always look at her and I get a boner and she looks at it but she doesn't say any thing but smile.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009):

i would tell her how you feel about her and see what happens if she looks at your boner and smiles theres a good chance that she will want you to seduce her so i would say go for it to see what happens

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009):

go for it

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A female reader, angelnikita United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2009):

Hey there do u both feel the same way ask her how she feels and if u both feel the same then its ok depending on how blood related you are to each other because cousins can have relationships even marry but again depending on how much blood related you are to each other check if your 1st, 2nd or 3rd cousins and so on and ask also you local register office im not saying your planning to get marrayd or anything but they can also help u decide if its legal or not for you both to have a normal healthy relationship before you get too involved but i hope all works out for you and good luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

In your country it is illegal to have sex with your cousin. The situation in the UK is different, in the UK and many parts of the world you can marry your cousin.

It is rubbish to say it's taboo or wrong, it is wrong in America, but not in many other places. Please follow the laws of your country. You cannot have sex with your cousin because you are a American citizen.

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (1 March 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt yahh man i know how you could develope these feelings for your cousin but it's just not righ

get a girlfriend instead who is not your cousin

and i think she already knows that you like her becaus eshe saw your boner when you were lookin at her,.. and she just smiles

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (1 March 2009):

jessica04 agony auntTypically, the closer you are related to someone, the more taboo the relationship it. That's why we tend to frown on first cousins dating, especially if they were raised so close together. Second cousins dating is a little less severe, and once you get into the "once, twice removed" aspect, it's pretty acceptable.

I however would not even think about entering this territory. Unless you know how your family would react, it's a subject I just would stay away from, especially since it sounds more like you just want to hook up with your cousin than start a meaningful relationship.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

Sorry but that a big no no young man you and your cuusin thats no right. just say u have a baby with her your baby will have so so much thing wrong so just fine a nice girl thats not cousin.........

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

Grow up - go out and get someone who isn't a relative. Its just you know her that's all... get a proper girlfriend...

Star.

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