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writes:ok so i'm 18 years old and i'm having issues with keepin an erection during sex because i'm just not feeling anything. I masturbate to pornography and it feels great, it feels like what i think sex should feel like, except i've had sex twice now and both times i cant keep an erection because i'm just not feeling the same sensation. I can feel the what going on but it just does'nt feel as good as when i masturbate so i just lose my erection and cant finish. So i'm a little confused, can anyone help me out here?
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reader, somecrazyguy +, writes (2 March 2009):
somecrazyguy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot for the help i really appreciate it. i'll try and stay away from the pornograpghy for a while and see if it helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): I think you have answered your own question.........too much pornography. You are forcing sex on yourself by watching porn, if you give it up for a month and only masturbate (without porn) when your body is feeling sexual tension then you will probably enjoy sex. I say probably because a month may not be enough time for you.
I should probably warn you that giving up porn for any length of time can be quite difficult for someone that has become addicted to the chemical rush one gets from viewing porn. All the more reason for you to nip this problem in the bud before you develop a lifelong struggle.
This is your problem, not the woman's....
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): The girl/guy you had sex with may not be sexually compatible with you. You can also be feeling some sort of 'stress' in keeping an erection while with someone else who may have a preset idea what a penis feels insider of her/him. Unlike a vagina/anus/mouth, you're able to control the pressure/tightness and method in which to produce the optimal sensation for your penis with your hand(s). Even through communication, your lover may not necessarily know how to control their muscles and/or technique.
Mind you, like I've said this a billion times in the last five days here at DC, Sex = communication, Good sex = experimentation and Great sex = communication, experimentation and practice.
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