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Over several years, I've been dating girls and guys... I feel more comfortable with girls. Am I lesbian?

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Question - (1 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

When I was 16, I had a 3 year sexual relationship with another girl. After 3 years she left me for another girl. I thought it was just a phase I was going through. Since then I’ve had the odd boyfriend but only for a month or two and never had sex with them. Then one night I was out with my friends, got drunk and me and another girl went back to my place. She made advances and I just went along with it and we ended up having sex. That was 3 years ago now. Since then I’ve had one boyfriend for 6 months and one for 12 months. Was it just a phase or am I a lesbian as I feel more comfortable around girls than men.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntI don't know are you lesbian or bi-sexual or just experimenting? Only you know the answer, and it doesn't matter, go with how ever you feel.

It's 2009, live your life how ever you like, it's not about the sex of the person you want to be with but the person themselves.

Have fun, explore your sexuality, but above all practice safe sex.

Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

Well only you can answer that. Anyway who cares? Have fun. You don't need a label, you are a healthy sexual being and that's all that matters.

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