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Am I turning gay or am I just curious?

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Question - (1 March 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2009)
A male United States age 51-59, *ja1973 writes:

I don't know what to do. I am married and have a child, I'm am 5 years married. When we have sex she stimulates my anus with her fingers or a dildo. Now I have a want to feel a real penis in my anus. And I spend hours reading stories of first time gay sex. Do you think I'm turning gay or is just curious?

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A female reader, schristinar85 United States +, writes (23 March 2009):

schristinar85 agony auntThat's hot. Don't feel bad. You should feel free to explore you sexuality in anyway you need. Just be safe & definetly keep your wife involved! Don't keep secrets, it WILL destroy your relationship. You guys should come up with a way to explore together.

xoxo, Sarah

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009):

Relax, and enjoy your sex partner, and your sex fantasy(s). It's normal to have a range of fantasy. Studies have shown that there is a correlation between intelligence and erotic sex lives, actual and fantasy (remember sexiest organ is the brain). Just consider yourself a horny smart-as*, and relax.

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A male reader, aja1973 United States +, writes (1 March 2009):

aja1973 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for your support

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A female reader, silvermist3 United States +, writes (1 March 2009):

I have actually dated a few guys that enjoyed the same thing. You aren't gay. Most men that try the back door with there girl, find that when they get used to the penatration, they can orgasm easier. A man's G-spot is his prostate, and the easiest way to stimulate it is through the anis.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

No not really, I don't think you're gay... a lot of guys like anal penetration.. and a lot of guys are curious as well. I don't know why you spend hours reading stories of first gay sex but I think it might be because you're wondering... you're curious because you think you might be gay but you're really not.. trust me

You've been married for five years with your wife and have a child, just enjoy yourself man. Don't worry so much about that whole gay crap.

gudd luck

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