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*oshgw22
writes:My wife has become cold and distant and has told me she doesn't think she wants to try any more(try to make this marriage work)and that its over unless things change. We have been married for 2 years this june and been together for 5 years this march. ive been out of work now for several months and take care of the house but, not as good as she dooes ( not even close) she tells me im a "worthless male" among other things and is always rude and defensive when i talk to her or ask her something. What would you think is the best thing for me to do to fix this? Do you need to know more about whats going on to form an opinion for me as to whether or not she is seeking someone else or already doing so? ( physically or emotionally) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): she is probably fed up because she goes out to work (if she wokrs) and comes home and things arent done how she wants them. you just need to talk to your wife, if she was seeking someone else she wouldnt have given you an ultimatum to sort things out she would of just left
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reader, Tony Blair  +, writes (1 March 2009):
It sounds like she wants out of your marriage, this is why she is blaming you for everything, what she really wants to do is end everything
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