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Can a realtionship like this work?

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Question - (1 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 March 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *ilvermist3 writes:

Am I wrong to think that you can have a serious relationship with out being sexully exclusive? I'm not the jealous type, so when the guy I've been with for 10 years has slept with another, I don't even get upset. I'm bisexual and have had my side runs too. He doesn't lie about anything and I trust him. I also know that i'm the only one he loves and trusts. We have twin sons together and are best friends. I want him to be the only man I'm with. Do you think a relationship like this can work?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

I agree with Star! If you are both happy with the arrangement, and you love eachother, then, why not??

I couldn't do it, but then neither could my guy!

Good Luck

Britt

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

Yes.

the relationship is built on Love. The sexual side doesn't have to be exclusive of others - there are thousands of couples who swing or have open relationships.

So Yes I think it can work if you are honest and aware of your actions on the other person. E.g. he might say its fine, when in reality it rips his heart out.

But i think yes.

Hugs Star.x.

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