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writes:I am a straight 17 year old and I have been masturbating to gay porn everytime i watched porn. I don't know why i did this but i am worried if that makes me gay. i never did nothing with a dude though and i never will. i feel really wrong when i come off to gay porn. what does this mean? and sometimes i have sexual fantasies about my guy friends. I do not want to be gay or anything but I just don't understand why this is happening to me. And i also jacked off with a friend before and we humped eachother. what does all of this mean? please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): I'm the one that said,"I'm 20 yrs old,and a guy"at the the top of the page any ways.So you jacked off with another guy one time no big deal.Things like that happen curiosity,thats all at a young age.But it doesnt mean your gay in the end,just curiose about another body,even a mans body its human nature to be horny and do random impulses at a young age at least once,right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009): I'm the same way,I'm 20 and a guy,I watch gay porn and I masterbate off it and also feel sexual watching it.But its porn you have to remember,with naked people,doing sexual things to each other.For most people not to get turned on would be strange.As for the fantasies,I've had them to about my guy friends,I just think of something els, especially when you'd never even wanted to be that person.Not b/c there not hot,but b/c you dont see them that way.Porn can bring on these feelings even more.b/c it can set that image,and atmospher in your mind,and through it can help form these thoughts of these fantasies.And even though I've gay porn in my life,but it doesnt make me go out and sleep with a guy,though it does give me a strong desire to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): Temptations always wonder in the mind,could be the strangest thing or in your case sexual.Just b/c you watch gay porn doesn't define your sexuality.If you continue to wont to do things with guys and give into thows desires then,you'll pritty much define your self as gay.But if you with draw from these feeling,then you'll most likely just end up with a girl.Your getting temptations a lot of people get even me but in the end its the giving into them and doing them that will show your true nature.Your trying a new thing it may be for you but its up to you the only one that can define you is your self period.
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (1 March 2009):
 You're still young and figuring yourself out. Don't be ashamed of any of it. If gay porn gets you off, go for it (though I don't like porn that much to begin with).
If you find a guy you fancy, maybe see where it will lead. don't knock it until you try it is what I say. You don't have to stay in any sexual preference role forever. Stop worrying about the labeling of things. Just be sexual (and safe!) until you really have decided what works for you and what doesn't.
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reader, [email address blocked] +, writes (1 March 2009):
hey its cool. no need to panic. this doesn't mean you're gay. you're still a young guy. you're curious about males and have a fantasy that turns you on. this usually happens to everyone at some point or another. it's probably just a phase or fantasy of yours. But this could also mean you're a bi-sexual. If you want to persue these fantasies then there's no denying you're attracted to men as well as women.
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