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writes:I'm 17 and totally in love with my friend. We had a thing around 2 months ago and ever since then I haven't stopped thinking about him - even in the period of having a boyfriend. He keeps blowing hot and cold - flirting and calling me and then ignoring me and acting uninterested and cold. (However he's a flirt with EVERYONE). I REALLY don't think it's a case of 'playing hard to get' this guy isn't like that at all. He is a serious player and I know in my heart nothing serious will ever happen. Right now nothing is happening... sometimes he doesn't reply to my texts.I am depressed because I know that he is attracted to me - he has said so in the past. When I don't see him I just instinctively get depressed and I know I'm being stupid but it's also stopping me from liking other guys. Every time I see a guy I think of him and compare them. It's so hard and it's getting me so down. Please as many answers as possible I'm in desperate need! thanks X
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): ahhhh i feel your pain.. ive been there done that
i know ur feeling awful right now..but by avoiding each other and him being weird its affecting your friendship.
in my case my best friend was attracted to me as well ..so i told him how i felt 2 years later and things got really mixed up to the point i nearly lost him :( its hard when they blow hot and cold when you really like the guy..its so confusing and depressing at the same time!
my advice would to be make sure you really love the guy coz it will mess with the friendship if he keeps blowing hot and cold. if he doesnt like you back and cant commit then please try to move on and meet new guys, coz no-one deserves this hot and cold treatment. Maybe he is still a bit immature and wants to play the field? but u must tell him he can not dis-respect you. coz if you dont he will keep doing this. good luck huni =) it aint worth losing a friend if this is simply a 'crush'..you will soon work out how you feel in time! X
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reader, MyDestiny  +, writes (1 March 2009):
 stop beying depressed
get it out of your system and tell your guy friend that you're attracted to him and have feelings for him...if he feels the same way, then great!!
if he doesn't that's still okay..atleast he'll know that you like him and maybe in the future he'll change his mind, as you said he did say that he mentioned that he was attracted to you..
gudd luck
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