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writes: I am having a problem having an orgasm with my bf. Ladies do you fake orgasms? I don’t know if it is a good idea. I rather help my bf help me have one. What tips do you have for having an orgasm? Are there some better positions for having one?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): Faking an orgasm is the worst thing you can do. Your boyfriend will think he's pleasing you when he's not. If you pretend to be happy, how can he get any better. You must be truthful in the bedroom. Show him what please you best. A lot of women can't have an orgasm through sexual intercourse, get him to touch your clitoris and give you an orgasm like this first. Then you will have pleasure, and he will know he done this for you. For other women, it takes time to feel relaxed enough and to find the right combination of moves to enjoy sex properly. Give it time, do your best, but never, ever pretend.PS: It took me 3years before it felt good, so don't hurry and don't worry, just have as much fun as you can. Sex is more than just penetration and orgasms, you have a whole lot of body for each other to pleasure. If your too frightened to be honest and communicate with him, then your sex life will always be bad
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): TALK WITH HIM,LET HIM KNOW WHAT FEELS good and what feels great,and a lot of practice.some women ,maybe 75% can only get off oraly.i can get my wifr off 60% of the time oraly but onl;y twice thruough intercourse.good luck.COMUNICATE!!! ITS A MUST
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): Did you have orgasms with other bf? Is the reason that he is not turning you on, or can he not find your clit or are you talking about faking during penetration?
Anyway I would not suggest you to fake, because you will miss a lot in your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): Yes we all fake orgasm's at some point but that's no fun. Try diffrent positions. The one that get's me everytime is go in like a missionary position but put your legs up on his shoulders. Have him rub your clit at the same time, And foreplay is a must cuz it will get both of you really excited.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): Yes, I have.
Only because my boyfriend takes offence if he can't make me.
I've used an electronic device to give myself orgasms for years....So my body is used to that, and I dont believe im ever going to be able to have an orgasm by intercourse...
Sometimes you gotta do, what ya gotta do!
Good luck!
xx
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (1 March 2009):
 I have never faked an orgasm. Honestly, if you are in a committed relationship and plan to be with this person for a while, then you need to speak up now and help him figure out how to please you. that is, after all, one of the best parts about a relationship ;-)
Also, most women tighten up during an orgasm, and some men can feel this contraction of the vagina. Better to just let him know you had a great time but didn't climax than get caught in one of the most humiliating lies ever (for you and him).
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): 1) Sex = communication.
2) Good sex = experimentation.
3) Great sex = communication, experimentation and practice.
Go to Google.com and search: "Sexual positions
Alternatively, let him probe you until he finds your delicious 'button'/'spot'.
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