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writes:Ok I really was attracted to this guy, occasionally he would come to my job to see one of his family members and every time I saw him we would talk, well he ended up having surgery and I sent him a get well basket. I heard he was very thrilled in response he sent a thank-you card which really touched my heart because of the personal note he put in it. I thought maybe there was a connection. I gave his family member my number to give to him it took him almost three weeks to call, I was starting to think he was not interested, well anyway being the gullable person I am we went out but, before we did we talked and agreed we were looking for something beyond the bedroom ha ha ha he played me we got busy and afterwards that's when the games began.He would call and still text but it slowed down. When I would call a lot of times I didn't get an answer or a return call, I would have to call him back, well eventually one day I called and he didn't answer all day period, now I'm pissed because I asked him more than once what was going on he swore everything was cool, how he thinks about me every day BS, well that was my last straw when he wouldn't answer I left him a few nasty text messages and voicemails. Now I feel bad because I feel that it was immature on my behalf to even go there. Should I apologise to him even though he played me????
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reader, lovealways74 +, writes (4 March 2009):
lovealways74 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks to all that gave me insight to my situation well I tried to apologize and he didn't answer the phone nor respond to my text. I was very stressed about this at first but, im ok now I realized this was what he wanted to do anyway well that's the game of luv you win some you loose some that the chance we have to take until happiness comes along and that still requires a lot of work once you get it!!!!!!
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (1 March 2009):
 yeah i believe you should apologize
be the adult in the relationship, apolagize for the nasty messages..and just talk to him about what ticked you offf (calmly)...and tell him whats on your mind and hopefully your relationship will get better after that..
communication is key
gudd luck
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (1 March 2009):
 It depends on what you want to apologize for.
Yes, you need to apologize for sending him nasty text messages and voicemails.
You can show that you are more mature than him by not saying anything about him playing you. After all, you always had an option (as an adult) not to partake in the "game".
Thats about it really. Apologize for that one specific nasty action you did, and move on. Forget about him. If he play games, would you you want him in your life? You are "saved" from him now ... stay that way!
Cat
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