A
female
age
30-35,
*mmaxbaby
writes:Last night me and my friend went clubbing, i ended up meeting this guy who brought me a few drinks and we ended up dancing, then he was grinding against me and was touching my chest, then he ended up fingering me in the corner of the club, and we proberly would of had sex if my friend didnt want to leave.He had a friend with him aswel and his friend told my friend that hes married and splits his time between london and dublin.Now i feel really bad for pulling a married man and doing things with him, should i feel bad?
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reader, bemused  +, writes (1 March 2009):
 Hi hun
Ok..he was married. You did not know then. You do know now. That should be the end of it. I guess I am a little out of touch but what why would you go as far as you did in the presence of total strangers? Is this your general style? You are at the age where you should be having fun but I think you are playing with fire a bit here. If you are considering having sex with strangers, you dont need me to tell you that you could be looking at stds,unplanned pregnancies, possible heartache or worse. Set your standards higher my dear and look out for your safety.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 March 2009):
If you didn't know he was married then it's not your fault.
It's a risk when you go out and have sex with complete strangers that some of them will be married / criminals / violent / psychotic. You don't know anything about them.
Just don't see him again and carefully consider how much danger you put yourself in when you have sex with any good looking guy who buys you enough drinks.
Good Luck!! xx
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