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female
age
30-35,
*odaii
writes:Im bi (recently come out to my friends), and i have a friend (X) who is also bi, and we're really close and for ages i've fancied her. For ages I thought that she might like me but now im sure, this is why:On friday, me, X and 3 friends wnt out for my friends birthday. It was cold and i only had a tshirt and a miniskirt on, and X insited on giving me her jacket, even though she must have been freezing too. We were all on a total hype later, dancing in the street and singing and dancing, taking crazy pictures and stuff. X jumped on my back, piggyback wise a few times. She didnt do it to anyone else. When we where eventually ordred in for singing too loudly and disturbing the neighbours, the five of us went into my mates cellar. In there, we went really quite gay, it was hilarious, sitting on eachother in a "suggestive manner" and making videos. At one point, i was sitting on a friend, who said to X "get your lesbian lover off me". X came over, pulled me up and put her arm around my waist (from behind) and rested her head on my shoulder, not moving when i put my head on hers. Also, when she was sitting or lying down, she kept pulling me on top of her, or patting her lap to tell me to sit down. All night i was being very gay too, but to everyone, pretending to make-out with some of my mates and stuff, but i wanna know, what should i do next? I really like her, and i want things to move forward. We're in lots of lessons together in school and shes coming to mine nect saturday, what should i do? I really wanna go out with her!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): Well If you want to ask her out, do it. Sounds like she would love it.I wonder, though, how someone your age is so sure they are "bi". You just throw around "very gay" as an adjective, and for some reason that kind of worries me. I know that these days, being bi-curious and up for experimentation with your girlfriends is kind of the fashionable thing to do. Guys like to see it, so naive girls comply. It's slightly taboo, you feel like you're a badass and sexually forward, but ultimately, you have to realise that being a bisexual is a serious thing.You don't just decide it on a whim. There are people out there who have fought for their rights and suffered so much prejudice and you are insulting them if you are calling yourself bi when in actual fact, you are so young, you are still developing sexually and emotionally (and mentally) and I doubt that you have done any self reflection on who you really are, and what it actually means to be bi.I know I am assuming a lot here. I consider myself bi so don't get me wrong. I just got a bad feeling reading your letter. Short answer: ask her out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): I think she likes you from all of what you've said, and maybe you should tell her about how you feel either face to face or a letter.She's giving you the OK signs if you ask me so give it a go and you never know you might have just bagged you a hot girlfriend.
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