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female
age
41-50,
*crappi
writes:I'm a recently seperated woman with children, I met a guy nearly 2 years ago at work, he is the same age single with no children, we hit it off immediatly, we started texting, in the time we have been texting, we text every day and have never missed a day, from the moment we wake up to when we go to bed, the usual day consists of about 100-150 texts plus at least 4 phone calls a week, by the conversations we have, you would think we live together, we have serious and very intimate conversations.He is a self confessed commitment freak, he was hurt very badly in a previous relationship and so he now has a three week rule with any woman, after three weeks he gets rid of them, i am the longest relationship he has had. We have kissed. But he won't let me visit him at his pad, wont visit me. He knows exactly how I feel about him, but if I talk about us he dosnt want to talk about anything serious. How can I find out how he feels and if he loves me the way I love him. Is he just scared of how he feels?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): Are you sure he is single???? It sounds like a married man to me!
If I were you, I would look in to the matter more carefully.
And if he is telling you the truth...if the relationship isn't going to another level, then, if you're not happy with where it is...time to move on. such action by you may shock him into reality, and cause him to take the next step...if that doesn't happen...I would truly move on. You can't let him keep you in limbo forever! Unless you are okay with that. But if you were, you wouldn't be asking us for advice!
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reader, kllgunner  +, writes (1 March 2009):
 hes just scared of being hurt again he prbly does love you thats why your still togeather but if it continues talk about therapy hope this helped -madly in love
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