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male
age
30-35,
*abelodefogo5
writes:Well this is my story. I started going out with this girl and 2 months into our relationship i cheated on her with my friend's girlfriend. It's has been almost 3 months since she broke up with me. For the first month we talked and i always told her I still loved her and that i was trying to change, and she replied by saying I still love you too but i don't know if I'll ever be able to trust you again! Well it has been 2 months since that and now I'm trying to prove to her that i have changed but I have no idea on how to do that. Any suggestions?I appreciate your help so much!
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reader, Anyquestion  +, writes (1 March 2009):
 Truth is she might go back out with you but will never fully trust you.If she feels for you deeply she will proberly forgive you but there will always be a voice in her head telling her that you will cheat again.The best way to get her to forgive you is to leave it for a couple of weeks then call her and ask to meet up.When you meet tell her you've changed and that you love her and say that it will never happen again.Also buy her flowers or chocolates and keep apoligizing!Keep me posted!
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (1 March 2009):
 Well, sadly the only way to ever prove this would be to never cheat on her again if she is willing to try again. You cannot make someone trust you, it really is something you earn, and sometimes when you break a person's trust, it is gone forever.
I would look at this as an experience in relationships and the consequences of bad behavior and apply your knowledge to a new relationship where you can have a fresh start.
You are so young, I wouldn't spend my time waiting for just one girl. I think it would be better if you cut your losses and move on, otherwise you would just spend your entire relationship with her always wondering if you were cheating or not. It will be very hard to be in a relationship with someone learning to trust you again, you will have to be very patient and understand any jealousy that comes from her.
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