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writes:Three months ago, I found out my husband was visiting a ton of porn sites. I don't have a problem with him looking at porn, however, I do have a problem with him viewing live webcams, and registering for accounts on websites that appear to be sex dating sites. We have been married for almost 5 years, and have always had a great relationship/sex life. I asked him to please stop. He said he would. A month later, he was at it again. There are so many free porn sites out there, I just can't understand why he would pay for smut like that. He tries to hide it from me, and has even gone as far as lying. I feel as though I can't trust him anymore. As I said, I don't care if he views porn, but having a private chat with some chick willing to show the world all she's got is cheating. How can I get him to stop? I'm at my wits end and have actually thought about taking our 2 kids and leaving. I can't have the same fight over and over...
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (1 March 2009):
 With children, this is an extremely important situation. In my opinion, the first step is counseling. The emphasis has to be preservation of the family unit, plus restoration of the sexual relationship. Porn, although I appreciate it occasionally, is deteriorative to a marriage relationship. When married men become addicted to pornography and also neglect their wives, reconciliation is very difficult.
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