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Pain during doggy style. What could be wrong?

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Question - (1 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 March 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Okay so this is very frustrating for me and my boyfriend, but for some reason doggy style is very painful for me. It's not too bad when he doesn't go in all the way, but when he does, that's when it hurts. But I have no problem when he goes all the way in with other postions!

(I am a 21 yr female approx 145 lbs 5'3" and he is 23 yr male approx 185 lbs 5'10") We've tried other positions and this is the only one that is this painful (on a scale of 1 to 10 its a 7) When he's fully erect he measure 6 inches and about 1.5" wide.

Is there something wrong that's causing this to be so painful ???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

No, there's nothing wrong. Doggy style is the position that allows for the deepest penetration,it can be painful to try and fit 6 inches all the way in, in that position.

There are other factors to consider though, the shape of his penis, you your leg length etc. try varying it a bit, like spreading your legs apart so you are lower, or putting pillows under knees so you are higher etc.

Try a few different ways of changing the angle to find one that's confortable, if none are, then don't woryy about it, as long as you are able to get pleasure in other positions then it's not that big a deal.

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A female reader, Miss Potter United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2009):

Miss Potter agony auntI think it just might be too deep for you - he hits your cervix. Occasionally it can hurt me too, so we just switch positions. Might be just your physiological constitution - you can either experiment more or you can just give up and go for positions that do not hurt at all :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

Well you should go to a doctor to find out if there's something wrong, but it makes sense to me that if it hurts, just dont do it.

If you have other positions that are good, just skip doggy style. I hate doggy style just because my husband and I aren't really a good fit that way. So we just avoid it.

I hope you are being safe and getting regular checkups.

Good luck!

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