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writes:Ok, I have done a stupid thing, I am always very professional at work however, I have fancied this guy for like ever and we finally snogged but it wasn't right, what I mean by that is that normally when you kiss someone for the first time it's just touching hands, face neck may be the body but this guy just felt my bum and boobs and it just felt like wrong, I mean I really like him but I am not sure if he is into me the same way. I keep thinking he just wants a quick feel with someone he works with and the excitement of gettng caught. I don't just want to come out and ask him. Any advice, or am I just reading to much into it and he is really into me and that was his way, was he just over excited.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): Totally!! If a hot co-worker got to kissing me (for the first time ever) at work, i'd be all over them too. It totally sends the message that this relationship is all about unbridled lust. You're not in kindergarten anymore!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): Well, if he felt your bum, thats okay, I've done that before, but not like squeezed it.
But feeling your boobs, either he wants you for a nice bit of passion, or he just wants to fuck you, and walk away.
Sorry to put it that way m'dear, but I'm rather blunt about things, and I'm 16, so my advice is a little rusty.
But here's what you can do, talk to him about relationships, and how you'd love a long once, if he sounds sincere and very gentleman-ly about it, you could be onto a winner here!
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): There are many possibilities to this one, it is possible he just wants a quick fumble, it's also possible he's inexperienced, he could be used to dating girls that were full on, over excited, if it was in work though it's safe to assume it was a quick fumble because there really isn't time for anything else. It might be better if you meet with him outside of a work setting for a date.
If you like him then it's best not assume anything bad about him yet, the best way to approach this is to set boundries, if he tries that again then just place his hands somewhere else.
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