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writes:well where to start ok it all started when i fancyed this girl at school and we got close but nothink happend she was in denial so i just left it at that then i met this 30 summink year old who i really trusted she was cool and i talked 2 her about everytink so anyway we got close and she ended up liking me and kissing me and other things i knew it was wrong because of the age but apart of me liked it so now im confussed about my sexuality i dont talk to her anymore and i know no other gay people i always push boys away because its like im trying to make m myself like them and theres only been one lad i truley liked but i messed that up to because i didnt trust anyone because my dad left me so now i dunno what to do i think deep down i know im a lesbian or bi i just want to know what i am so i can stop hurting myself and messing lads around please help its really messing with my head
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reader, kissxmexagainx  +, writes (3 March 2009):
 I like girls && guys. I don't consider myself to be bi really, just sexual. you don't need to label yourself && there's nothing wrong with you. just go for what ever you feel like at the time. don't fret over it, you're fine.
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reader, melon +, writes (2 March 2009):
It really doesn't matter!! I know that it's not nice to not know exactly what your 'identity' is - but i honestly don't think that it matters. Don't label yourself, you don't have to. If you fall for a girl, date her, and if you fall for a guy, date him... Sorry I have no other advice :-) xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni left it for a year im nearly 18 and it keeps coming back to this same Question its driving me mad
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): At your age it's very normal to be feeling confused about your sexuality!Forget about it then a couple of months later really think about it.Nobody at your age should label themselves.It also helps to talk it throught with someone you trust!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): At your age it's very normal to be feeling confused about your sexuality!Forget about it then a couple of months later really think about it.Nobody at your age should label themselves.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): I know this is easier said than done, and probably not what you want to hear but the only thing that you can do is just try not to worry about it. It really doesn't matter if you are gay, bisexual or straight. Thinking about it is pointless (some people go through life straight or gay, some people think they are straight and end up gay, and vice versa) Just go with whatever you feel is right at the time and whatever makes you happy :-) Good luck xx
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