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writes: My girlfriend is mad at me for making of fun her sister (who's deaf and 8 or 9 not sure) when she was in the room as me. Her sister got picked on, her parents decide to home schooled her .The way only you communicate with her is sigh-language. My girlfriend got so angry at me she threw me out. I haven't heard from her since. Any ideas? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): totally deserve to be treated like crap to b honest, making fun of a disabled child...when she's in the same room! Good luck getting out that hole. I agree do some volunteer work and find a heart while ur there
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): You deserve it. Learn yourself some respect.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (1 March 2009):
 You actually took the piss out of a disabled child!
I think you should do some voluntary work with disabled children to show your girlfriend that you are a nice guy really. And it may even teach you some respect for others.
You really need to think long and hard about how insulting you have been to her and her family.
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (1 March 2009):
 Um, wow, I cannot believe you would make fun of a deaf child. That is pretty low.
It sounds like you don't even realize how hurtful you were to your GF and how disrespectful you were to her family, and until you can see how truly distasteful your actions were, there is nothing you can do to win over your GF again. Unless you are truly sorry and sincere for making fun of someone who is about 10x more helpless than you, she will see right through you and never take you back.
You need to be sorry for what you did, and not sorry for the consequences of your actions. It shouldn't take her throwing you out to make you realize that making fun of someone with a handicap at such a young age is a bad thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): Yes, you owe her a huge apology for being an insensitive, a-hole! If she forgives you, consider yourself lucky!
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