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writes:Just happened to find this site and it seems very interesting, Ive had a lot of life experiance myself and yet many questions, so here I am!Why do adult men lead you on?I met a man and we connected well, at least he thought so and I did to,he led me to believe that. Then he calls and wants to get together on the weekend and the weekend comes and he wont return email or calls, yet he emails and calls and he seems like im the best thing since sliced bread. But he does throw into the conversations that hes very busy and going through a divorce and just isnt always available,,so maybe i have answered my own question here---loser-player==but why do they do this. I am an intelligant,good looking,settled woman,why the games?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): because we are stupid. We have a wonderful thing in front of us yet we get diverted and fail to see the obvious.
if it helps women play these games too.
normally its from fear - fear of screwing it up, fear of it not being right etc. who knows. but bloody stupid.
However, as you have said maybe he isn't. You don't know what's happened...but follow your instincts and consider it a strike - he gets three of them.... thats only if you want to.
Hugs. Star.x.
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reader, Tony Blair  +, writes (1 March 2009):
Adult woman do the same. We all want the best of both worlds, it's a subtle game. Woman do the chasing, men just think they do.
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