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writes: I think I am being used.. I am dating a married man who claims to be very deprived, to the point that she never wants to do it. To complicate matters, he's impotent. Says I make him feel like a man again. What does this line mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): He's an a-hole! You are special, he just doesn't have the brains to realize it! He is a womanizer! You can do so much better! Don't waste your time with this jerk!
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Britt
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk now i am feeling really low, i not only feel used but even worse, like trash, he asked me to do a threesome with him. And I thought I was somewhat special.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (1 March 2009):
It's easy for him to say that she doesn't want sex, and she doesn't understand him.
It's also easy for him to say that you are new and exciting and make him feel manly and alive - that bit is probably true.
But lets face it, if you are with a married man he is only ever going to be after one thing. He's MARRIED, he's always going to go home to her, and buy her christmas and birthday presents and spend all his time with her.
You are his bit on the side.
If you don't want to be just there as a bit of fun then date someone who is available to be your boyfriend, not someone who already has someone.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): We all feel brand new when we start a new relationship. Especially if he has sexual problems. His wife has probably given up on him. And the fact that you are there for him, causes him to feel like a man again.
When you decide to enter a relationship with a married man, it is normal for you to feel used. When the party is over...he goes back to his wife. And even though he says they have a nonexistent love-life, you gotta wonder what is going on when he is with her, right? You know you are only hearing one side of the story, so you wonder, What is the reality of it?
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